21 December 2006

Shut up!

I wonder why people judge other people that they have never even met!? That's one thing that not only boggles my mind, but thoroughly pisses me off.

I remember when Bibleman and I first started dating. All I heard was how much of a psycho bitch his ex-wife was. Granted, what else did I expect to hear from him about her? But either way, nothing he said about her had any influence on my opinion of her at all. I had never met her, so I just didn't feel right talking trash about her, or forming an opinion about her based on his biased views. Personally, I highly doubt she was a psycho bitch. I think she was either A) very stupid for putting up with his shit for 17 years or B) a friggin Saint.

Point is this, I'm quite upset that 'person A' would judge 'person B' based on something 'person C' said, especially when 'person A' and 'person C' have never even met 'person B'... I guess it goes with the territory. I would have loved to tell them both to shut the fuck up! And it still pisses me off!

1 comment:

Monsoon said...

Situations like that and talking about exes in such ways, happen all the time. Unfortunately it is all too "normal" and frequent. I so agree with you. I guess someone who has gotten divorced kinda needs to talk about the stuff. Perhaps even talk down about the ex, to constantly reassure themselves, and everybody else that leaving was the right thing to do.. I don't know...

It sucks nevertheless

Hugs and love Eilen xxx